OP
accordfire
Im lucky, CSA was after my day, but still look after my daughter now 27 on my terms, when CSA finally came to town, with big ideas, my ex wished she hadn`t been so petty....out of spite, she re-regerested the birth without my name as the father...case closed
Well done you! That's one of the things that got me too - I got no credit for raising a step daughter out of my own pocket for nearly ten years - CSA weren't interested in chasing HER natural father.... and they weren't willing to take account of the stuff she did have since we split.... car, laptop, holiday for her and the kids, house, money, and more.
I sent the CSA my shirt at one point too, with a note telling them that between them and my ex, they'd had everything else.....