i'm interested to know munga42, if you are a qualified electrician, a plumber or a diy'er.
you didn't answer the question i posted in reply to your original post, and seem very defensive and attacking in response.
my point was that you are asking people how to do something which appears to be putting you out of your depth with capability, so, as i said before maybe it would be better / safer for you and anyone else in the environment of your proposed system, (assuming it's for personal use rather than a client as it sounded) to employ somebody who knows what they are doing to handle the elecrtrical control side.
i think that's a fair comment.
regardless of your apparent irritation with being suggested of this, i have spent some considerable time helping you although i doubt it will be understandable to you.