DO NOT PROVIDE A 3 POLE CHANGEOVER SWITCH if this is a 3 phase generator!!! By the sounds of it, you are installing a generator as a stand-by power source for general installation power requirements, which means you will need to provide an isolation point for both the neutrals as well as the phases. Different if all the generator was supplying, were 3 phase motors with no neutral for control purposes....
So providing what i have assumed is correct you will require a 3 position , (Main Power / Off / Gen' Power) 4 Pole Changeover Switch. You will have some REAL problems if you solidly link the neutrals of both systems, and use a 3 pole changeover switch, of that i can assure you!! lol!!