Its perfectly possible using finder relay and retractive switches. Basically you switch the neutral at the retractive switch. Used a lot in france and italy
see link
http://www.finder-relais.net/en/finder-relays-series-27.pdf
item available from cpc farnell
see link
http://www.finder-relais.net/en/finder-relays-series-27.pdf
item available from cpc farnell