This maybe an option if old 240v system but with a monitored system you cant just tap a relay off the sounder circuit as you are not allowed to spur which in effect you will have created, the sounder circuits are monitored as either a loop, radial or addressable system which can have many wiring schemes. tapping a cable of the circuit to pull the relay in means the wire to the relay and the relay are unmonitored, a fault within this section could render the sounders innoperable when energised, any device fitted to the alarm or sounder circuit has to be designed specifically to do so, it also must form part of the monitored path.
Most panels have auxillary relays (volt free) which can be utilised for this purpose or a 24v output on alarm to power you device or relay, if not some brands have relay kits that can be fitted.
The fire regulations are different for different situe's with regards to venting, i recently fitted a venting window in a communal stairwell as it was the only escape route thus clearing the smoke was priority against having a possible oxygen feed... it come down to getting ppl out, its tried and tested and saves more lives, as goes the building might get more damaged; well! i know i prefer to escape with my life than worry about the damage the fire causes.