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spark-doctor
quite right dyche, all you can do is try and get aware of it, and how it was used. hse has some good guidance on what to avoid etc, i wonder if there is something on the market where you insert a dust sample and it turns a certain colour when asbestos is present ( ps i have just applied for patent of this device in my father honour !)
There is a little sachet you can get. You put the material in it, crush the bag and shake. A lot like the drug sample things you see on the TV. I saw a specialist asbestos remover using them a while ago. He said they were very limited but can give a "dirty indication" on site but to be sure the sample has to be checked under a microscope.
I do a lot of work in old military sites and am lucky that there is a full survey done before we start work. if the material is deemed stable, you would not believe the extra regs we have to abide by to work in the area.