I'll be interested in any definitive answers to this thread, since I have a 230-0-230V, so called split phase supply, and have wondered if I could utilise this to get 14.4kW charging. I suppose the EV itself makes the decision, and my charge points get used for all makes.
Ah, now that's a different question, and I'd say the answer would probably be no. Bear in mind that your split supply is probably nearer 480V than 460V RMS between lines, vs 415V for standard 3ph. While all equipment should be designed to cope with short term surges to that level, some might not like being fed it all the time - and that includes your charge point/wall socket as well.
OK, it's only an extra 15%, but that's still 15% more than most equipment will have been designed for.
The answer will come from Vehicle Manufacturer's. If they are brave enough to commit !
And then there's the problem where :
The manufacturer of the current car says "OK", so you install the charger accordingly. Then you change the car and forget to ask, or sell the house and the new owner doesn't know they need to ask, and the new car can't accept it ? There's risk of expensive damage there.
So, lets assume one situation where the charge system does have 3 independent inputs, each connected line-neutral. In this case, both will see the 240 L-N voltage so all OK there. But whereas on 3ph, at the higher power, the DC ripple will be reduced due to the 120˚ spacing of the phases, on split phase it'll be roughly double that on single phase as the full wave rectified DC would be in phase between the two inputs. That may take some components past their limits.
But at least you shouldn't burn out the neutral.
I'd say there are too many unknowns, and too many "things might change in the future" possibilities, to make this a safe thing to do.
EDIT: Oh yes just thought of this: The charge point will probably turn off due to the voltages being out of tolerance - so it assumes a broken PEN and disconnects everything. Same with the L1-L2-L2 "not 3 ph" originally mentioned.