We are simply looking for some advice on an alien (to us) area of electrical world, hence I joined up to see if we could find some sensible assistance. With respect, I feel the need to plead the case of competency more than actually get to grips with the nitty gritty of the original question.
For the sake of sensibility, could we kind of move on from the concept that there is an element of 'danger' involved? I assure you we have fully scoped this area....
We are not questioning your competence in your own area of work but by your own self admittance you are trying to do work that takes you into a totally different area of legislation and regulation, we are trying to point this out to you, regardless of motors been 1ph, 3ph AC,DC etc the very act of trying to alter or combine control for multiple motors will mean you have to comply to other regulation you're probably unaware of, of which we are trying to advice you, I have already hi-lighted certain criteria you may need to meet but from your explanation I believe you would be required to intergrate a critical safety circuit common to all motors, electro/mechanical interlocked directional controls, possibly a global monitoring system to ensure like you say that load is kept balanced.
We lack so much info here to give tailored advice tbh but from what you have given it does strongly lean towards the need to meet the EU Low Voltage Directive and as already mentioned you will be falling under the 'Safety of Machinery - Electrical Equipment of Machinery'.
We are not trying to trip you up here, the manner of you question and what you want to achieve all point to a need for you to comply to the suggested regulations, the area you work in, be it stage lighting for a concert to production line machinery is irrelevant here, they all have to comply to the same regulations when designing the control systems.
When we bring up this subject you repeatedly reply you are competent and fully aware of the regulations you have to comply to yet this does not show in your replies and the actual questions you are trying to ask... if you are linking these motors together to a common control system you effectively alter the requirements the original motor controls were built to and makes them non compliant - you cannot simply extend the control of 4 seperate motors hoists to a common control system (yes that is simple in theory and practice and probably would work, but falls far short of requirements.)
All we are doing by dragging this out is to ensure you are aware of the correct regulations you have to adhere to, so far you have not shown this in your replies. We want to avoid giving misleading advice here so with all respect to the knowledge you have in your own field, we are asking you to realise you maybe entering a whole different level of your work to that which you are used to.