okay.. forget that.. Of course I can't put the diode on the motor itself like that.. it's coming off the 'b' lines of the motor.. If I remember how these work and i'm probably wrong here.. it has the two windings, one on each side of the motor. basically, power goes from the driver into '1a' through the winding, making the motor turn that way, then out through '1b' back into the driver. when the power goes from the driver to 2a it goes through the winding on the other side, and the motor turns the other way, then out through 2b back into the driver..
when the motor is turned by hand or whatever, it generates a current in the windings and sends that through the b lines unless I know the electricity is being 'used up' in the winding, blocking it from going back to the driver is stupid and useless.. The driver plugs into the board mounted socket.. and making a mid-point socket is.. possible.. but maybe a bit still.. but I guess possible.. just get a bit of prototype board, put a socket on top, going straight into pins on the bottom, and it'll work as a pass-through. adding the diode to the vcc line would be what I want.. since the rest of the board path is printed, it's not really possible to put a diode there...