Or would it mean the bedroom light would only come on when the PIR triggered? She can see the outside light works, but doesn't realise there's a disco happening in her bedroom since she's outside triggering the PIR.
Bingo!
As Telectix says, some are more tolerant of voltage than others. If they're both tungsten/tungsten-halogen, then their brightness will depend on the voltage. If they're LEDs, then it won't (much) - they either work or they don't.
An interesting thing about incandescents: their resistance when off is a lot lower than when they're turned on, because as wires get hotter their resistance goes up. So a 100W GLS lamp will only have a resistance of about 530 ohms when it's got about 230V across it - below that, the resistance will be (I reckon, anyway) less.