OP
Knobhead
Your question was a bit unclear, so sorry if I answer what you have not asked =-)
On a 3 phase system (all normal trickery is generated 3 phase) if there is even load on the 3 phases the net neutral current will be zero.
So at the transformer, if the system is designed in balance there is no need for an expensive copper run back to the power station.
However as the balance is slightly off in practice they need to 'dump' the extra electricity, so the send it to ground.
So it is more that the N is earthed at the transformer, not the other way around.
So in your house (when everything is working well) you will have the same amount of trickery coming out of the N as comes in the L, and nothing going down the earth.
At the transformer there will be lots coming in and out of the lives, and a small amount in the N which gets dumped to ground.
Although there is a small amount of trickery in the N it will not go back up the E as the path of least resistance is too ground.
If you have an RCD in your house that 'measures' the amount of trickery coming in the L and subtracts the stuff going out of the N, if there is a net then it cuts the supply (as it means some it going out of earth).
If you had no earth, there would not be an imbalance and RCD would not work until an earth was introduced (eg you touching the faulty item and acting as an earth).
This is embarrassingly simplified, but I hope it gives a better understanding.
I just don’t know what to say, either you’re drunk or smoking something you shouldn’t.
Danieru, please ignore the above post, it’s utter rubbish.