Hi Mhar, Thanks for your reply, no, the rad is copper all the way so part of the earth, the shower hose is Extraneous as you said the connector is plastic. since the unit is earthed and the rad is earthed and bonded to each other I guess the difference is because the voltage is making the hose conductive through the water. Since water is a bad conductor this would account for only 0.2v on the hose and 2v on the rad (or 2v and 12v after shower is run) I haven't and wouldn't be so mad as to connect an earth from the unit to the hose given that the unit is contained and earthed thus giving the current a path to something metal I can touch in the shower.
Hi Wilko, The tingle is when I'm standing on a tiled floor near the shower.
Midwest, cheers again good advice of course but when I isolate the shower it's still giving this reading, also when I flick the switches in the CU no single circuit seems to be responsible for the voltage, as my sparky turned them of the voltage just slowly decreased.
It seems to be a few circuits combined that make a difference though, the three light circuits and one ring main although it isn't 100% clear.
If I turn off two of the lights on one lighting circuit the 2v goes to 1.9 but if I isolate that lighting circuit it stays on 1.9v