If the appliances are blowing due to too high a voltage (and this isn't the only thing that could cause it, but I'd say it's the most likely), this is probably one of three causes:
(1) Transient overvoltages of atmospheric origin transmitted by the supply distribution system, and switching overvoltages
(2) Incorrect supply voltage
(3) High resistance neutral joint between the star point of three phases (say, 3 adjoining houses, each on a different phase) and the incoming supply neutral.
It's difficult to determine if (1) is the cause, without access to some pretty nifty monitoring equipment. To fix (1) you need a surge protective device (SPD) fitting at the origin of the installation.
Determining if (2) or (3) is the cause, you need some way to measure the voltage. Electricians have plug-in testers (multi-function testers) that will do this, but they can only measure the voltage there and then, and they won't pick up spikes/surges as in (1). You could measure the voltage safely yourself with something like a plug-in power/energy monitor, like this:
NASHONE UK Plug Power Meter KWh Watt Energy Monitor with LCD Backlight Display. Electricity Meter to Measure Power Consumption and Reduce Energy Costs. 3680W: Amazon.co.uk: DIY & Tools - https://www.amazon.co.uk/NASHONE-Backlight-Display-Electricity-Consumption/dp/B07F9JJFR2/ref=pd_sim_107_1/257-5885365-2640615
If (2) or (3) is the cause, then your DNO (distribution network operator) needs to investigate.
I have suffered personally from (3). A few years ago I lived in a house with mural wiring: the three phases and neutral, supplied by an underground cable, were split between 3 houses using a joint on the rear wall of one of the houses, then distributed as single phase supplies to each house - known as mural wiring. The neutral joint started to fail, such that the neutral to all 3 houses was firmly jointed (very low resistance) to each other, but, with an intermittently high resistance to the incoming supply neutral.
The end effect was effectively a 3 phase star configuration, with a (partially) floating neutral, where each phase was in a different house.
This meant that if you put more load on in one house, the voltage on that phase (in that house) would go down, but the voltages in other houses would go up - often to higher than the permitted range. Hence the broken appliances (which Western Power payed to be replaced).
Fortunately, no fires or injuries.