OP
sorry, was not getting updates to thread. ok, lets start. I am using a cheap finger live tester i.e stick finger on end version, but it works. when switch is turned on for kitchen light which is the one that the spur for the flood is taken from the flood glows dim and their is live at neutrol. it is 100% neutrol i.e correct wire and can see the switch wire and feed coming into junction fox with wires clearly labelled etc. When i then turn flood light switch on, switch live is live as expected and flood light blinks on and off with the kitchen light. i have left the lives and grounds in place and run a seperate neutral to nearby plug and everything is fine. i also have tested with cheap light tester mentioned above and their is live at the kitchen neutral when kitchen light is on which is not the case with any other downstairs light as i have checked. All wires are in correct places. I get a live at neutral at kitchen neutral even when flood light extension is de linked. which confuses me. As mentioned light was working and simple switch, so can only think link from kitchen to junction box is dammaged and will need to replace link. I have electrician no and he can only conclude same but said i can book and appointmdnt tomorrow if that does not resolve it because he has seen my work before and he knows he would be what he called compitant. Even though this is confusing the hell out of me.