There's a Suffolk flange fitted, so the shower hot water comes from about three inches lower down the cylinder than the rest of the hot water. This shouldn't make any difference to comparative water temperatures until the hot water is nearly all used up.Reason i am confused is that there is talk of the shower take off from the cylinder being lower than the top take off and there is talk of the pump running when either tap or shower are running.
It would be very unusual to feed downstairs taps from the same pump that feeds the shower, but not impossible.