I totally get you, however I have to say that I do things differently. I am a businessman at the end of the day, the fact that I am an electrician and enjoy the job being an electrician entails is purely a bonus. It's all well and good having all the skills in the world but if you haven't got the work to put those skills in to practice then what's the point? I have plenty of work and view myself as successful (in a totally not blowing smoke up my own a$$ sort of way lol), a massive part of this I put down to being able to offer a service that other electricians can't provide. I didn't build a client base to put my skills to work by being cheap, I built one by being the best! If all you want to be known for is the fact that you operate cheaply then that is all you will ever be known for as word of mouth will spread, "Yeah, use him, he's WELL cheap innit". Well that's all well and good if all you want to do is pay the bills but when the bills are paid and you want to start living, try upping your prices when all you have is a reputation as a cheap spark! When that rep dissappears, you're back to square one ain't ya!
I have two rules when it comes to running a business; 1 - Be ruthless, and 2 - Be the best! (Utter cheese I know, but...)
I find it very easy when quoting for work to be able to say to a client what other electricians who come to quote are likely to say and that if they do it is complete rubbish. I find it easy to say to a client that when other sparks come to quote for work to check all their qualifications whilst spreading mine out on the table knowing full well most others won't have anything like what I do. I find it very easy to show a client that unlike most we are an ethical business, we have an actual commitment to the continuing progression of all apprentices we employ and that we don't just use cheap labour, we pay well and we actually use fully qualified sparks who actually care about the work they do and aren't just worried about clock off time. I find it easy to say to prospective customers that if they are looking for cheap, choose someone else, but if they are looking for the best, then I'm their guy. Finally, I find it easy to confront and expose other electricians who aren't up to the task! Done in the right way this can also be very profitable (or at least I have found this to be the case).
To sum up the point I'm trying to make, if you're looking to pay the bills drop your price. If you're looking to build a business, stick to your guns and be the best. I'm under no illusion that it will be tougher in the short term but it will definitely pay off in the long run.
That's my two cents anyway