Wade88 - I know you said you're a newbie but you come across as less competent than the 'metal worker' who installed it.
You have 3-phase supply... yes?
You have a 3-phase motor... yes?
You have IR and ohmically tested the motor and it is fine... yes?
You have 3 wires of the 3-phase supply into the top of the contactor... yes?
You have 3 wires into the bottom of the contactor and out to the motor... yes?
You have disconnected all control wiring and pushed the contactor in manually... yes?
You have traced out your control circuit... yes?
So you will have a normally open pushbutton, a normally closed pushbutton, a thermal overload (terms 95 & 96) and you will utilise the volt-free contact (auxiliary) of the contactor as your hold-on latch.
You will take a wire from one of the top wires (perhaps L1) out to the 95 of the overload. Out of 96 to the normally closed pushbutton. Out of the normally closed pushbutton to the normally open pushbutton. Out of the normally open pushbutton back to the contactor coil A1. We will come back to the normally open contact shortly.
Now take a wire from one of the other wires (perhaps L3) and take that to the contactor coil A2.
If you power-up now... by pressing the normally open pushbutton the contactor should energise, close thus power the motor. If all is well at this time then you're nearly there!
For god's sake... power off before this next bit!
Back to the normally open pushbutton. You need to wire the contactor auxiliary in parallel to this...ie. place an additional wire to one side of the normally open pushbutton and connect to one side of the auxilliary contact. Place an additional wire to the other side of the normally open pushbutton and connect to the other side of the auxilliary contact. This will then allow your contactor to latch in.
If this fails... get the metal worker back