Basically, on the tax question, we all pay far more than we are led to believe.
I use the example of a chap getting a payment of ÂŁ100 one day. A bad day for him, he usually earns much more,but he is in a higher tax bracket...
thus, ÂŁ100 less income tax leaves him with ÂŁ60. He goes to the filling station and buys some fuel (more tax) a packet of smokes (more tax) a bottle of gin (more tax) and that's his ÂŁ100 gone. Not a perfect example, but add in NI and IPT and VAT and you will find, depending on your lifestyle, that you give back such a lot in taxes that you wonder why you bother...
I worked out, a few years ago, that when I took all the taxes i paid into account, including airport taxes, and all the others above, my personal tax rate was 88%.
Now,of course we all have to pay VAT and income tax and others, but when you boil it all down, we need to pay these levels to run this country. However, I suspect there is so much wasted tax revenue that goes on government departments with little purpose, inflated salaries to useless quangos, massive amounts wasted on the military procurement and nuclear deterrent and so on, if we keep on doing this we will end up like Italy...
Happily for me, I am now retired, living meagerly by some standards, but managing fine. There are so many out there who are struggling right now, and help is not at hand at all, for immediate need.
All this rambling is simply to highlight that in the current crisis we may have to carry out an enormous re-evaluation of how this country is run. Don't just heave a sigh of relief when we can get back to work and forget about the privation as soon as the cash starts to flow gain...no, plan ahead, because this will happen again.
My daughter asked me if she should apply for a "mortgage holiday". She took my advice some time ago, and saved up 3 months' mortgage payments, against a situation where she was made redundant, which happened just before last Christmas, and also for the possibility that she hated her job so much she had to walk out (something I have done before).
Armed with that "buffer" she was asking what to do now, and i told her to apply for the "holiday" because if this gets much worse, having money in the bank, cash, will be critical. The banks will survive, because the government will support them, and the mortgage holiday is just a deferred payment scheme...3 months on a 25 year loan is nothing.
Nobody supported me during the 2008 crisis. I lost 75% of my business then, took no salary for months in order to keep my staff in a job, used savings and other income to keep going, and ravaged my pension funds as a result. Don't regret it, but it gave me an experience to remember and to plan for the future.
My only lasting regret is that Fred Goodwin and his ilk never got sent to prison.
This crisis is "blameless" compared with 2008, but we must all take time now to re-evaluate our situation. Only pressure from the general public will change things, so we must take the longer term view and assess what really matters...anything extra is a bonus.
Rant over.
On carrying out non-essential work...I went to a house last week, as previously mentioned, to fix the plumbing. No hot or cold to the bathroom or utility room, washing machine etc. Not essential, as they have another bathroom, essential because all the incoming mains had to be switched off, so effectively no cold supply, so no heating, no toilet, no way to wash clothes. My view, and yours too, i am sure...essential.
Yesterday, I changed a lamp in an outside fitting above lady's front door. Essential? For her, being elderly, possibly, as she likes to have light there. Not essential, but it involved me unscrewing the front plate with the glass in it, replacing the lamp, screwing it back and going home. Danger level?
Zero, in my opinion. It's all about assessing the job, and being sensible. If I get the assessment wrong in someone's opinion, well, who is to say that their opinion is better than mine...as the famous line went
"opinions are like assholes...everybody got one"
Finally, folks...I too have tried the online grocery services, and frankly to wait 2 weeks for stuff that will be right on its sell by date is just stupid. I queue if I have to, but pick my times carefully. Sunday, mid-afternoon is best for me, and avoiding tesco and shopping in my local village is stress-free and rewarding, for me, and for my local shopkeepers. I, for one, will support those local people long after this crisis is over, despite the higher cost. After all, they came to my rescue, so to speak, and you can't forget those who got you through...
oh...btw, that Lego tower is awesome!