I'm trying to do it on my notepad still it's annoying the hell outta me now. At this point, I've added a second relay to the other beacon, I seem to think you have to link each relay out to not set the other beacon off. or am I wrong?
Heres a pic of where I am.... But whether I'm on the right track or not I have no idea.
There's a couple of minor hicups with the circuit. On the 12vdc control circuit you've linked both beacon lights together so if one of the beacons operates when a fence zone alarms then both beacons will come on together. The beacons have separate 12vdc supplies from the fence control box and need to come on independently to indicate which zone is alarming, linking them together will not allow this to happen.
The second problem is on the 230v side. The neutral directly to the floodlight is fine but the live needs to be switched to the floodlight when either relay operates. The switch contacts of the relays need to be wired in parallel.
Think about a basic light circuit with two switches. If you wire the switches in series you need to operate both switches for the light to come on. If you wire the switches in parallel then either switch will operate the light. These are referred to 'AND' and 'OR' circuits and form the basics of boolean algebra which no doubt you'll be taught at some stage.