I do not think that the clamping mechanism of a Wago connector 'invariably gives out.' They have been subject to strigent testing in the UK to qualify, when suitably enclosed and slightly de-rated, as maintenance-free under BS5733. I.e. a properly made Wago inline connection is expected to be so reliable that it can be embedded into the building fabric, never to be accessible again, without having a measurable impact on the reliability of the installation.
The point of any connection is to have low resistance throughout its life, while withstanding whatever influences it is intended to withstand (vibration, corrosion etc). The way in which a Wago achieves this is different to the way a wirenut achieves it. Significant understanding of connector technology (metallurgy, physics, chemistry) is needed to fully analyse how these differ and what their strengths and weaknesses are in different circumstances.
We are a bit phobic about wirenuts in the UK, without much good reason. We used them in the past, but went off them in the 1960s. I agree with you that a good electrician can make a sound connection between copper wires using a good and suitable wirenut, no problem. There are situations where I would prefer an alternative, which might be a Wago.