Is that 100A per phase?It also depends on the length (and hence voltage drop limit).
Typically 35mm is fine for 100A = 69kVA total which is usually the current limit for domestic supplies, but you need to check the length and (occasionally) that the cable is not passing through any areas that are hot or heavy thermal insulation.
No, but while I’m talking to National Grid, I want to make sure they put in a big enough cable. I started by ordering three-phase and paying 4 1/2 grand to put it in. But then I realised that being looped, I could get delooped for free and when they put in a new connection, if the customer asks for three-phase they will do it. So I got a refund and had to wait six months to get it for free.This will be designed for you by your electrician who will (should!) understand about cable calculations, de-rating and so on. This isn't DIY territory.
You won't get 2 * 22kW chargers on single phase!No, but while I’m talking to National Grid, I want to make sure they put in a big enough cable. I started by ordering three-phase and paying 4 1/2 grand to put it in. But then I realised that being looped, I could get delooped for free and when they put in a new connection, if the customer asks for three-phase they will do it. So I got a refund and had to wait six months to get it for free.
Now I have a date and I want to make sure everything is perfect.
You won't get 2 * 22kW chargers on single phase!
So you need to adjust the plans or reconsider the supply.
But in theory if they install a 35mm cable, I should be good whatever I need to plug in within reason, right?
they're planning on putting in a 35mm cable
The 'they' is the DNO, National Grid who are doing the install. The cable in the street coming to my property is 95mm according to the DNO engineer. That's about as much as I know.Who is the 'they' in this case? The DNO or your electrical contractor?
If it's the DNO, what cable they use is out of your control. They will size their equipment according to their regulations and specs, to meet your agreed requirements which should have been calculated by the electrician before the application was made. The methods they use to size cables are different to the ones electricians use within an installation, as they have different performance specifications to meet under the ESQCR, for example.
If it is your electrician installing the said 35mm², then they should be able to calculate the cable to meet the requirements of BS7671 for whatever you have asked them to install either now or in the future. The worst case will be all demand or all generation - i.e. the maximum power that can flow in either direction. From what you have stated, the demand will significantly outweigh the generation, but is likely to be within 69kVA.
As mentioned above there are many factors built into the cable calculations, not just the load. Without all the information from a site survey, it's difficult to give a definitive answer to whether a particular cable size is suitable. 35mm² is in the right ballpark.