Couldn't agree more Andy78! Many on here talk about "knowing the torque" and I truly believe they do, from years of experience. I fondly believe one instinctively knows when something is right...
We know some cables "creep", some soldered connections do particularly, some fine-stranded are susceptible to being over-tightened etc etc...
I am no expert, I just do 'em up...pause a while, then just check 'em again...that's what my dad taught me 50 years ago, and it has been good advice, from home, to caravan, to extreme marine use on 12v DC...
Amateur, maybe...never known a failure yet, but seen loads...
usually on 2.5 rings where the sockets are not tightened properly. Frankly, they need to design those terminals better, but that's another story.
Get a torque driver, keep it in your toolbag and produce it if asked...but I believe you should trust your hand and wrist first of all.