Being an 'Engineer', perhaps you could explain how a broken neutral, or (more likely), a high resistance neutral joint in the street outside your property would trip a DNO protective device.
Let's take a scenario:
If you had a rising copper water main in your outbuilding and this was bonded back to the MET in 10mm to satisfy PME supply conditions.
If, for whatever reason, you then lost the supply neutral (which is your earth), or the impedance of this neutral rose undetected due to a dodgy joint etc, then some of the 'normal operating current' from your property (and possibly some of your neighbours' as well), will find an alternative path back to the transformer.
This path could be the rising main in your outbuilding, which would mean that the 'rising main' and any other metalwork will rise in potential, depending on the amount of current taking this path. (don't forget, the RCD won't trip).
If this happens and you touch any of this metalwork in the outbuilding, you should be ok, because it's all bonded together, so all at the same potential, BUT, if you are in contact with 'true earth' (e.g. through the floor) then you could get a shock.
This could also happen under normal operating conditions, although the current taking this alternative path would be very low, unless you had a fantastically low Ra on the rising water main.
Like I said in my post, it's up to the designer/installer to weigh up the pros and cons of running earths to separate buildings - it all depends on the circumstances.