Ok then. Let me tell you a story,
6 guys go out on safari and soon they come across a majestic herd of elephants. "Oh wow" says one guy "those hippos are huge" The other 5 guys look at him and say "No buddy those are elephants"
The first guy explains that he was brought up to understand that those are called hippos and can't see it any other way. The other guys all get out their official issue safari books and encourage the first guy to do the same. They all look up elephant and see the definition and the pictures and wait for it to sink in.
The first guy says "Well I can see where you are coming from but to me that there is a herd of hippos, we are just going to have to disagree"
Surely the other 5 must either think this guy is on a wind up or else begin to question his capacity for learning ?
I guess the moral is that if you want to get anything out of this forum you really must entertain the idea that you are not getting a concept if the majority of users are telling you something and can back it up with reference material. Otherwise how can the forum take you seriously, and what do you ever hope to gain from being here ?