People living in Ivory towers !!
Luckily there are electricians out there who thankfully live in the real world.
A borrowed neutral on 2 way lighting is an unfortunate by product from by gone practices.
Left untouched in its original form it posed little problems, and guess what, you wont find many fatally electrocuted customers living in properties wired this way.
It was compliant with the regs of the time.
Whats important is that you do not feed the borrowed neutral circuits from different mcb's.
That would leave the installation with a potentially dangerous condition.
In an ideal world you would rewire the offending lighting circuit for compliance with current regs.
And make the customer aware of the requirement.
If for some reason this is not an option, ie customer refuses point blank because of costs and or disruption to decorations.
Well you could walk away !!
Which would leave those suggesting you do so, to move in and wire the lighting circuits onto 1 mcb effectively making them one circuit and in doing so removing a shared neutral scenario.
Of course you should list this as a departure, and make your comments on the existing installation as to the if's what's and whys.
Its your choice and a judgement call as a qualified sparks.
What it isn't, and never has been, is a shock horror, lets be drama queens run forest run scenario.
Presumably you are with a scheme provider considering a board change is notifiable and if your going to building control on your own back,it will cost you lots of ÂŁÂŁÂŁÂŁs
So if in doubt just phone there technical helpline and ask there advice.
They will give you exactly the same options as I have mentioned above, and at least that way you are getting sensible, and practical advice.
Forums are only as good as the people using them so be careful, and always get advice from qualified trusted sources as a cross check.
Hope that helps.