Re: Tell us about your faults !
first of all I would start by measuring the voltage at the main isolator in the consumer unit, check the connections are secure ( they are often loose)
check the voltage with everything switched off on the incoming side from the cutout/meter
230/240 v it will vary a little
then switch the light on and see how much voltage drop is occuring and record it ( should be nothing)
then operate the shower and measure again
if the voltage stays more or less the same plus or minus 4V then repeat the test on the switched side of the main switch from the neutral bar and the copper bar feeding the fuses ( if you can access it safely)
if the results are the same the problem lies further on
it could be a loose connection withing the fuseboard
or it could be the lights are spurred of the shower or the shower is spurred of the lights???
not unusual but lethal
you really need to see how the shower is fed from the isolator switch follow the cable along
often the old fashioned MK1 eyeball is the most efficient method
if the voltage drops of alarmingly on the first test, then its the supply cables either loose undersized or possibly the supply cable to the house failing, I have also seen the cut out fuse loose ( it should have screws and nuts to pinch it up)
but thats a supply company problem
stick some pics on here it you like